– #Challenging Rudiments of Sexual Curiosity, Desire, Delusion and Experience –
There exist mysterious links between language and the human brain; and the heartless and brutal way in which language is used in our times, as if it were 1only a power tool in public relations, a shortcut from sly producer to gullible consumer, has always seemed to me the most threatening portent of incipient bestialization. It is frightening to observe that a progressive aphasia, not organically determined, appears to overtake large numbers of people who seem to be unable to express themselves except by hoarse barks and expletives. The gift of tongues, not explainable on the basis of natural selection, is the true attribute of humanization; and it is only fitting that it be revoked shortly before the tails begin to grow. (Erwin Chargaff, Heraclitean Fire)
RUDIMENT 1 | ARE YOU EXPERIENCED?!
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While fetching Golf Balls gone astray on a Golf Course[1] in the Summer of Love[2], a small Boy witnessed a strange vibration.
Two naked girls ... playing hide n seek in the bushes ... one wearing a Head Band with flowers in her hair[3] ... the other odd pony-tail lady having grown a full beard freestyle, wearing metal-rimmed glasses ...
... seemingly engaging in somewhat of a religiously biased fist fight, mutually huffing n puffing gospels like ... I’m coming! ... Oh my God! ... and so forth ... causing the boy‘s most favoured Popsicle to be dropping onto the ape hanger-handle bar of his metallic bi-coloured banana seat bicycle[4].
Ten years after in ’77 and with a bit of a seventh grader‘shindsight, he eventually figured, it weren’t John and Yoko farming beef[6] in the bushes but a Hippie Couple making love not war.
Among other kinds of sexual education, Serge n Jane[7] ... The Graduate[8] ... Led Zeppelin[9] ... Maria Magdalena[10] ... Shirley Bassey[11] ... Donna Summer[12] ... Silver Convention[13] ... Penny McLean[14] seemed to be explicating what love was supposed do and what it was all about, at least from the Music Industry’s commercialised point of view.
Another two years having gone by, ’79 was the year of watching Clockwork Orange featuring Alex‘[15] sexual bruteness, observing The Postman’s[16] kinds of sexual intercourse as much as witnessing Laura’s Rape[17]in one of GH’s[18] episodes– kind of a long-standing Adult-OrientedSesame Street[19](AOSS). All of this, seemed either merely disillusioning or simply boring in regard to the queer expressions of love.
At any rate, there was definitely much more to it, than love, gone with the wind[20]... certains kinds of Kleenex-cleaned pillow talk[21]... smootches among bewitched[22] spouses... couples sharing love on a roof top[23]... uneasy love among Ladies n Gorillas[24]...heard aches in Dallas[25], Denver[26]orat the General Hospital[27] ... emotio-ethical aggravations among Thorn Birds[28] etc[29].
RUDIMENT 2 | ARE YOU CONCERNED?!
Mahsa ... Mahsa Amini[30] just aimed at gaining Autonomy on her Being. Probably, she just wanted to expose her sprained ankles for reasons of curative treatment. Apparently, the young lady was neither genitally mutilated[31] nor subject to weaponised rape[32] or put to death by shame killing[33].
In a sense, Mahsa was killed by the poisonously musty societal Smell having emanated from Turbans[34], Hidschābs[35], Burkas[36], Niqābs[37], Khuffs n Clogs of Thousands of Years of dull Patriarchy and female Submission on the Quran’s[38]odd Ideology and Hermeneutics of Human Dichotomy.
Against the backdrop of such stone-aged Islam, uniformed female Saudi-Arabian Police Officers[39] in metropolitan areas like Dubai armed to the teeth wearing long skirts, Scarfs and Pilot Specs, driving Brabus-tuned Mercedes Police AMG G63s epitomise imperial favourites, monkeys on a stick dolled up like dog‘s diner.
Witnessing Police Forces[40] having testified skill shortages[41] in their ranks while having dealt with soaring waves of migration, it renders no surprise, more than a few (male and) female refugees from troubled and dangerous regionsfor women[42] migrating to economic and social sanctuaries elsewhere find incentives[43] and support at making up educational degrees through evening classes, subsequently being permitted schooling and training, eventually engaging in a natty career as a poncified Provider of Peace and Order.
As a matter of fact, The World of Islam would require 95 Theses[47] of a Reformation[48], i.e. Protestantism[49] as a Change Agent and Game Changer against murderous religious denominations like Islam[50] and once Catholicism[51] putting an end to the modern Witch Hunt[52] on enlightened and self-determined Women.
RUDIMENT 3 | DEAR LADIES AND GENTLEMEN?!
No?
RUDIMENT 4 | HI GUYS?!
No?
RUDIMENT 5 | – TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN – ?!
No?
RUDIMENT 6 | TO THE BLACK, TO THE WHITE, THE RED AND THE BROWN, THE PURPLE AND YELLOW?![53]
[Off:] Excuse me Sir. Seeing as how the VP is such a VIP, shouldn't we keep the PC on the QT because if it leaks to the VC you can end up in MIA and then we'd all be put on KP.[56]
Lets talk about Heterosexuality, Homosexuality, Bi-Sexuality, Travesty, Transsexuality!
Does Talk and do Terms and Phrases really make such a big difference in terms of Self-Determination and Self-Fulfillment?
Regardless of their Sex, sexual Sentiment, (non-)marital Status and Profession, too many People lack understanding the extent to which they resort to suppressing their creative and emotional urge of pursuing a Life in terms of conceptualising an Atelier of Self-Content and Artful Living in their very own right.
Who’s and what‘s to blame? Society? Surgery? Therapy? Quota? Who and what should require change, how and why, when and where?
We’re all Society. In a world of Producers and Consumers, action is still louder than words.
What does Self-Determination and Self-Fulfillment cost?
It affords nothing but Self-Awareness, Courage and Stamina.
Throughout the 60s‘ final years of the decade, the 70s and 80s, looks, public presence and creative performance had conveyed unique statements reflecting on exceptional Attitude, Mindset and Self-Determination.
Starting in the 90s, there seems to have been a Regression of our solely innate will and drive towards Self-Assertiveness, ever since having transformed into a digital Age of self-affirmative Narcissism of premium, second-hand and wanna-be Celebrities.
In lockstep, our (colloquial) Language has adopted many new (politically correct genderly appropriate) Abbreviations and Terms having facilitated odd kinds of stereotyped Habits alongside mechanised Traits of getting along with each other. Paradoxically, one could consider this a way of disintegrating and de-socialising with one another.
Slightly exaggerating, People no longer tend to be greeting each other by their names, but rather prefer labelling and vocalising their sexual orientation, styleand mutual expectations while simultaneously demanding unlimited respect and equal opportunities. Moreover, the original distinction between Sex (a human being's biological Nature) and Gender (a civilised human being's social Role) has pretty much dissolved.
In due course of our uneasy efforts of tapping into the whereabouts of the kinds of Human Nature of Sentiment, Sexuality and sexual Desire, People have largely dissented from the sexual revolution[57]and enlightenment of the late 60s onwards to the 80s. Furthermore, our civilised Society's long-term memory seems to have disintegrated from recalling noteworthy Eras of Equality and Equal Opportunity, e.g. of the early 1920s[58].
Having had a hard time of reinventing the wheel of Gender Fortune, male, female, trans and whatever kinds of Homo Erectus of the 21st century altogether seem to have suggested, these times never to have existed.
Nowadays, especially those users simulating sexual Enlightenment by means of vocalising and showing off their Inter-Gender Coolness, express lack of understanding their own sexual Retardation if not their near the knuckle Perversion.
See how they run / Lady Madonna, children at your feet / Wonder how you manage to make ends meet / Who finds the money when you pay the rent? / Did you think that money was heaven sent? (The Beatles, Lady Madonna)
RUDIMENT 9 | ARE YOU EXPERIENCED?!
Ever read and understood Elizabeth Cady Stanton‘s Declaration of Sentiments and Resolutions[59] ... Simone de Beauvoir‘s The Second Sex[60] ... Susan Sonntag’s A Woman’s Beauty, A Put Down or Power Source[61]... Janice Raymond’s Transsexual Empire[62] ... Eva Hoffmann’s Lost in Translation[63]?!
No?!
Well, please don’t mind making up homework at your earliest convenience! Nevertheless, the following quick fix of a Compromise might be less time consuming, however, probably not less intellectually, emotionally and socially demanding. Hence, would you mind checking the according footnote’s fine print on some some terms[64] requiring clarification[65].
On the issue: As readers might’ve perceived by now, this feature can neither prove being politically correct nor the opposite, but should rather demonstrate one’s broadly facetted point of view on surrogates and words fatally substituting for the Real Thing of an Individual’s Emancipation.
Once a Sphere of Privacy and tender Intimacy, it seems like almost everyone, foremost American Celebrities these days tend to be rubbing everyone else's Faces in their sexually uptight Self-Images to an extent of the politically correct and humanly possible – on every TV Channel and Radio Broadcasting Station, on all the social media available, 24/7/365.
Thinking of Marlene Dietrich[66] and Josephine Baker[67], i.e. icons in their very own Right, a Century has passed since the Roaring Twenties[68] introduced Women’s Liberation, one hadn’t perceived before and hasn’t seen ever since.
After almost 150 years (!) of Women's Liberation Movements across the Globe, the inherent poor or at least fragile State of Women's Equality doesn't pose a good Omen on appreciating all other Forms of Human Nature and Disposition.
Regardless of their social Self-Determinantion and sexual Self-Interpretation, the eternal Struggle of Women and Men for Supremacy seems to have been resolved for long in an unforeseen fashion. Equal Opportunities and Rights for all kinds of gender has been established in company with the traditional Sexes by means of everyone having to endure everyone else‘s Terror of a performance society‘s industrial Accord and meaningless Leisure.
Congratulations!
Those people merely experiencing two- or multi-fold happiness tend to be facing compulsory Threats stemming from experts, public and social Media as much as aggravated Mindsets bearing on those Singles and Couples having pursued adverse Competition against one another. Too many people have been disintegrating and de-socialising each other at substituting mutual Pursuit of Happiness for pleasantly uneasy Frustration.
Once Paul McCartney said, Lady Madonna was a tribute to women everywhere. A photography of a mother in Vietnam entitled Mountain Madonna[70] breastfeading her child had inspired him.
At any rate,who respects mothers of such kind nowadays?!
In contrast, surrogatemothers seem to have been on the rise.
Since the early 80s however, one might’ve associated a much different kind of a personality with Madonna, called Madonna[71].
Has she[72] been one of the epitomes of women’s liberation[73], gender equality[74], neutrality[75] and versatility?
This everlasting celebrity cult having circumscribed women like her[77] has been really amazing.
What is this? Is it Emadonnicipation, Madonnasturbation or is it simply about horny (Oole) Madonna's Self-Deception[78]? Does such elevated status and prominence simply follow years and years and years of hard work? What should hard work suggest, bootlicking ... #me too ...?
Regardless of their Sex, Gender Role and Skin Colour, quite a few of these Superstars, enjoy a Demeanour and an Entourage reminiscent of Emperors of Medieval Ages.
The whole of m#therfuckers ... sorry ... altogether, the Tabloid Press and their Hollywood Reporters, so-called Society Experts and self-appointed Sex Pioneers, Gender Experimenters and Reality Show Celebs seem to have paralysed our emotional and rational Intelligence, having clogged our Senses as much as our Sense for Love (Agape) and Sexuality (Eros).
I would pose the question: how can transsexuals truly give ‘informed consent‘ and freely choose to convert to the opposite sex anatomy and role when the coercive power of sex-role socialization is filtered through all institutions in a patriarchal society? (Janice Raymond, The Transsexual Empire)
RUDIMENT 10 | LOST IN P’ELVIS?!
As is well known, after his breakthrough, Elvis the pelvis at some point of his career was no longer allowed to be filmed below the waist[79], at least in the United States.
Perhaps, Hollywood epitomises the pinnacle of uptight inter-sexual Education and Apotheosis taking effect in oddly illuminatened Pillow Quarters, replacing intuitive sensory Sensation, sexual Engagement and Thrill with physical and dialogic Prostheses of the directors’ cuts and the #me too-supervisors’ periodic safety update reports.
Why don't Hollywood's Producers, Directors and Actors simply choose to omit these ridiculously choreographed love and bed scenes featuring couples wearing silly unmentionables, voicing dryorgasms instead of using slippery when wet[80] Condomes?!
Obviously, this has applied to most of the entire American film industry’s releases as of the 90s onwards. Oddly enough, modern times especially in the Digital Era display signs of uptightness of folks in a life without sexual ... sorry ... voyeuristic limits of abstruseness, in mushrooming communities of preppy swingers, cross-over gang bangers and perverted manga nerds.
In this context, the Internet resembles nothing but a peep and porno show serving facititiously undersexed, underexposed, unexposed and paedophile kinds of human nature.
Have we civilised societal beings been regressing to politically and genderly correct protheses without the slightest idea of Sexual Sensation, Liberation and Emancipation, Eroticism and Sensuality, Love and Devotion?!
This should make one think! Unfortunately, genuine sexual education, awareness of one’s and other’s sexuality, sexual experiences of intimacy and eroticism have already fallen by the wayside.
Providing, peripherally more natural authenticitiy was wished for after all, Hollywood's modern Dream Works of Producers, Directors, Actors and Innocent Bystanders prefer borrowing from while watering down[81] fragments of International Film Classics of French[82], Italian[83], Swedish[84], British[85] or even German[86], of course American[87] and last not least Japanese[88] Directors.
Evidently, Hollyhemissphere‘s Sexual Shadow Boxers of Art Directors, Artists and Spectators can neither handle Heterosexuality nor other kinds of sexual Bias and Being – at least not naturally.
By the way, the amazing success of American Pie[89] (USA 1999) wasn’t thanks to America's enlightened libertarian Views on sexual teen spirit or the Art Director's and Actors' exceptional Creativity, if not personal Experience.
The American Box Office Hit merely bears on having covered Lemon Popsicle’s[90] (Israel 1978) unique authenticity in terms of reflecting on adolescents' Aggravation, Thrill and Agony involved in chasing sexual Experience, finding Love, dealing with Jealousy, Separation and Re-Unification.
Just five years earlier American Graffiti[91] (USA 1973) pretty much displayed a half-hearted subliminal Approach to sketching such Teenage Adventurism in the sense of Rock n Roll Music and an itsy bitsy teenie weenie little bit of adult talk.
Speaking of Rock n Roll, George Lucas[92] should've known about The Beatles in Hamburg[93]. Back in the day (1962), John Paul George and Ringo enjoyed more erotic adventures and sexual freedom off stage in Germany, than any other Dude or Girl at Woodstock[94] could've dreamt of.
9 ½ Weeks[95]... hmh ... adults ... playing doctor ... [yawning].
Dear Art Directors ... Americanos[96] ... why don’t you do yourselves a favour, refraining from trying to mimic[97] if not ridicule the variety of other kinds of non-conformative habitual Traits, emotional Dispositions and Sorts of sexual self-understanding as long as you can’t handle heterosexual Eroticism?
How about rehearsing the Time Warp[99] for a warm-up?!
Oherwise, Frankenfurter[100] might be hitting you up.
Who’s can be assured everyone understands, i.e. is willing to understand, appreciate or at least tolerate everyone elses socio-sexual-practices?
However, advertised and real ambitions of Necrophilia in terms of Pedophilia and Sadomasochism are no option. Only helplessly bored and compulsory uptight minds tend be getting caught up in a vicious downward spiral of such temptations and impulses.
With all due respect, is e.g. Fifty Shades of Grey[101] to serve a Nation’s Populace partially made of the Gilmore Girls‘[102]families, favouring Parental Advisory Boards[103] and Villagers still prohibiting, i.e. penalising Footloose[104]Action?
But it's the pelvic thrust / That really drives you insane / Let's do the Time Warp again / Let's do the Time Warp again (The Rocky Horror Picture Show)
RUDIMENT 11 | CATERPILLARS AND BUTTERFLIES?!
Assuming, everyone could attain their preferred appearance and mindset in terms of Sex, Size, Gender Role, Skin Colour as well as Voice, Language, Culture, Behaviour, Knowledge and Memory at will as of legal age onwards, or could commit chameleon-like adaptations depending on the situation.
Would this suggest a better (Life in) Society or would it simply remain the same?
So everything has (been) changed, eventually nothing has.
To what extent, does small- or large-scale plastic surgery of one's natural Fabric and Anatomy pave the way for more Autonomy by means of Self-Determination and Self-Fulfillment?
Which human parts and accessories, Haircuts and Skin Colours, fashionable kinds of Attire are required for turning oneself from a presumed caterpillar into an admired butterfly – for how long?
How should disabled, physically and intellectually less gifted or privileged People be viewing themselves and each other against such a backdrop of wishful thinking and perfectionist ambitions?
Would a Brave New World of biologically standardised Sexes, socially stereotyped Genders and statistically priced-in deviances of perfection mean a more peaceful pursuit of societal Happiness, Industriousness, Education and Enlightenment?
The kind of woman pursuing a ‘female career’ thus usually proves a more or less forcibly diminished personality. Such a constitutive deficiency's consequences are usually odd, featuring male clichés of a female power-obsessed politician(ess) or com(wo)mander in charge. For the chosen ones prove incapable of distinguishing liberation from oppression from coming to terms with exploiting their sexual feminine charms or at least rudiments of such. These She-Males may skilfully manoeuvre between the fragmentations and divisions of their womanhood's parts and accessories, they are commony exposed to, unwittingly or cunningly show-casing their female attractions, controlling the gaze of men to their own advantage. Such executive female behaviourism, epitomises nothing lesser than the female topos of the deceived betrayer. (M. Schuller, Success or Happiness?)
RUDIMENT 12 | FROM TRANSEXUAL TRANSYLVANIA?!
In a more or less extreme fashion, homosexual and lesbian Couples display classic Phenotypes of heterosexual male/female Relationships in terms of role allocation.
Almost always, one Party takes on the superior (actively commanding) part, while the other side adopts the inferior (passively submissive) role.
Ain’t that amazing?
Also transvesticised or transsexual(ised)[116] Wo/Men, i.e. Women (Men) and Men (Women) make no exception in the sense of resorting to the Archetypes of socialised Behaviourism in their respective Relationships.
Despite the Variety of Sex and Role (Game[117]) Switches, independently attained Self-Awareness as much as mutually granted and shared Freedom of Emancipation, i.e. Self-Determination and Self-Fulfillment are hardly being found in all expressions of singular, bilateral and plural kinds of being, Relationships and Community Living.
From the outside, same-sex and transsexual partnerships may have gained more societal acceptance and human rights compared to heterogeneous ones.
However from the inside, these new Phenotypes of and Trends in human coupling, either implicitly or explicitly tend to be mimicing traditional Partnerships' Roles in all aspects of behavioural Emulation and Conservation, the whole of sociological findings may offer.
Excuse me Sir, how did you find out?
Attentiveness, Education and Life-Experience, honey!
Whatever a particular Human Being intends to be physically, socially and professionally turning into, or wishes to be called accordingly; one may hardly be expecting anything else from such a mortal creature i.e. civilised savage but doubtful deeds and treats reminiscent of Mankind's grand Total of Achievements and Failures, having been historically experienced, witnessed, testified and recorded.
In this sense, Homo- and Transsexuality among born and self-made wo/men shouldn't suggest or guarantee immunity from Darwinism, Egoism, Racism, Sexism and Totalitarianism. Unfortunately, empirical research couldn't have approved of such, for such investigations haven't taken effect yet.
Why not?
Imagining, homo- or transsexual People represented a societal Majority versus a Minority Group of Heterosexuals, social Disadvantages and Exclusion of the latter mustn't be denied but rather ought to be considered likely to be prevailing too.
Nowadays, especially (social) Media, foremost Entertainment Businesses as much as Political Entities and Lobbies either advertise distorted Portrayals of Transgenders or romanticised Depictions of Homo- or Transsexuality, rather comparing to the kinds of travesty[118] common place in cabarets[119].
Against the societal backdrop of ruling Majorities as per customary right, this perception holds true to every other tacit or visible human characteristic and should serve at least as a humble thought-provoking stance.
Regardless of the innate, i.e. biological fabric, self-perceived sexual sentiment or surgically declared gender; independent of ethnic origin, socially adopted or proclaimed role; at any rate, the common Individual much too often affirms of being degraded to a Nobody in the Mob, while enjoying Participation in the Juggernaut's rulership over less numerous fellow citizens.
One might feel free to be attaining a global overview transcending continental Regions, Nations and Populations, Locations and Communities, Neighbourhoods of Families, Friends and Acquaintances; unlikely, observing structurally exceptional deviations from the rule bearing on respective Habits, Traits and political Regimes.
RUDIMENT 13 | OPEN ACCESS BEINGS?!
How about crash test dummies[120] ... sorry ... randomly customisable shop window dolls wearing ear clips, bearing micro-chips indicating personal Information, Employment Record, big data on Health, daily updates on the Life Expectancy outlook as much as Gender specific forecasts and surgical plus psychotherapeutical task force projections?
Wouldn't such role models of open accessbeings be much easier to handle for a society of Nobodies tryin' to be Someone?
Social(ised) genders of such kind ... labelling themselves I am what I am ... I'm not half the man I used to be ... born to be alive ... born to be wild ... gimme a like ... don’t gimme a dislike ... gimme all your lovin' ... stand by me ... don't stand so close to me ... r.e.s.p.e.c.t. ... everybody needs somebody ... feelin' rather unsettled ... to be or not to be ... born to die ... display vital Needs and Fears on the one hand, however, a great deal of Narcissism coupled with Pleghma on the other.
Where else on Earth but in the privileged hemispheres of developed Economies could people undergo treatment, i.e. daily total care like Michael Jackson‘s[121], plastic surgery like Meg Ryan[122], hairline eyebrowe convergance like Sly Stallone[123], breast up- and downsizing like Pamela Anderson[124], sexual conversion like Bruce Jenner[125] turning Caitlyn Jenner[126]; like commeners transforming into The Leppard[127], Tiger Man[128], The Most Pierced (Wo)man[129] in the World, if not being show-cased The Transsexual Performer of the Year[130]?!
Wow!
From the women's point of view, sexual libertinage and eroticism on sale haven't brought about an inclined self-awareness and immersion of societal morale to their benefit. After all, only men if not those females having ‘successfully accomplished a career in a Men's World’ have taken the profit from cashed-in relationships in terms of ‘exchange-value’ or revenues on gender exposure by means of ‘aesthetic commodities’. Me too, I used to fall in love with all my murderers for strange reasons called ‘womanly manners’ and ‘societal morale’. (M. Winter, Paradise Now)
RUDIMENT 14 | BABYISH INNOCENCE?!
Paradoxically, the Gender Debate[131] has been revolving around the introduction of a variety of additional features of human sentiment and fabric on conceptual lexical Neutrality.
Instead of having pursued a creative Emulation of new multi-facetted settings of Vocabulary accordingly, traditional Terms have been lexically neutered as much as grammatically violated, i.e. nouns/adjectives re-declinated and verbs/adverbs re-conjugated rather oddly.
Such genderly correct Language by means of neutral, diminished Terms or Abbreviations, lacks Connotations of emotional Value native Languages had long established before. Latin, the language of science, specifically drawing on Medicine and Taxonomy, is likely to be serving a gender-appropriate language.
To start with, homo could replace all Forms of Address as well as Pronouns and Singular/Plural. Nouns like thing and stuff – well, y’know ... or y’know what I’m sayin‘... are probably a bit too lengthy – and other Substantives diminished to their respective rootsyllables, would substitute for other primary word groups such as Verbs, Adjectives and Adverbs.
Furthermore, articles, relatives, conditionals, prepositions and conjunctions could be easily omitted, for the syntactic core of Subject- Predicate-Object only required an iteration of sentences made simple in Speaking and Writing.
Altogether, such a genderly language would compare to a two to four year olds' State of Language Acquisition (Devices) and Application.
What could be more charming than a pidgeon language voicing babyish innocence?
Congratulations on an unbiased language!
There are women who have always stood up for women. Women need to learn to recognise such women. Women also have to understand who their friends really are. (Janice Raymond, Women’s Friends)
RUDIMENT 15 | BOYS DON'T CRY?!
Among Boys and Girls, verbal Superlatives of Sympathy and Tender Loving Care, like hugs or kisses in the sense of sharing one's Happiness and giving Solace is considered absolutely normal. The same with Fathers and Sons, Brothers, Mothers and Daughters, Sisters.
At a teenage age, such kind of emotional and physical Empathy is societally more likely to be accepted as normal among Girls, than Boys. The same holds true for Women. That is, neither little nor teenage Girls or Women are suspected to be engaging in lesbian Relationships.
Interestingly, teenage Boys and Men have never enjoyed such emotional room for manoeuvre, except in sports. What is more, boys don't cry[132], right?!
Especially in Men's Team Sports, there seem to have never been limits to physicality. Victories and triumphs have always guaranteed a joint state of hormonal overdrive. Moreover, Men's Martial Arts such as Boxing, Judo and Wrestling display the most intense form of physical contact among Men besides having Sex.
What are the lessons to be learnt from one’s own experience?
Society, i.e. all of us have made things unnecessarily difficult for those People having tried and done the same, however, set in different social frames of reference.
That provides lots of food for thought for Everyone!
Ever thought of having oversocialised[134] your being as a pers?n[135] – ?
Years might be spent gathering the public together. This abstraction, which the individuals so illogically form, quite rightly repulses the individual instead of coming to his help. But to adopt the same opinion as the public is a deceptive consolation because the public is only there in abstracta. A public is a kind of gigantic something, an abstract and deserted void which is everything an nothing. (Søren Kierkegaard, On Society)
Hmh, just one more thing[136] – not your Acquaintances, Bank Accounts, Companies, Fashion Designers, Friends, Parents, Spouses, Surgeons, Therapists, Sociologists and Zoo-ologists define who you are!
It’s your Critics, internal Dictators of acquired superegos and plain Enemies, in the sense of voicing fear of Someone aiming at accomplishing Self-Awareness, Self-Determination and Self-Fulfillment against the odds of an abstract[137] called societal recognition and appreciation.
Family Members, Friends, Acquaintances and Peers believing to have known you, never openly tend to be expressing such kind of fear, of course.
Commonly, they enjoy subliminating fear in terms of articulating concern – Just grow up! – at best, suggesting a whatsoever crisis be demanding for psychotherapeutical treatment at a Local Social Conflict Counter Insurgency Center (LSCCIC). Complementary options, might be recommending a Change in partnership or sex, a sabbatical or early retirement.
Obviously, an uncountable number of young People can’t retire from a societal hemisphere of aggravated grown-ups, unless they relocated to another solar system.
Most of the time, suggestions like taking a walkbarefoot in the park[138]and a shower afterwards, display half-hearted empathy inevitably directed at merely facing up to the self-imposed uneasiness of everyone’s f#ckin’comfort zone.
What’s the bottom line?
It’s never too late, to start changin’ on the first day of the rest of your life, for there is no right life in the wrong one![139]
[70]Inspiration for the Beatles' Lady Madonna? National Geographic | Paul McCartney | The Guardian: Sir Paul McCartney has spoken of his inspiration for the Beatles song Lady Madonna: a photograph of a woman breastfeeding her child in National Geographic. McCartney said he was inspired to write the song, which reached the top of the charts in 1968, after seeing then image in the magazine in the 1960s. National Geographic’s January 1965 issue included a photograph entitled Mountain Madonna, of a woman whose way of life was threatened, with one child at her breast and another laughing up at her. ‘She looked very proud and she had a baby ... And I saw that as a kind of Madonna thing, mother and child,” McCartney said. ‘Sometimes you see pictures of mothers and you go: ‘she’s a good mother’. You could just tell there’s a bond and it just affected me, that photo. So I was inspired to write Lady Madonna, my song, from that photo.”
[72] M. Winter, Paradise Now: From the women's point of view, sexual libertinage and eroticism on sale haven't brought about an inclined self-awareness and immersion of societal morale to their benefit. After all, only men if not those females having ‘successfully accomplished a career in a Men's World’ have taken the profit from cashed-in relationships in terms of ‘exchange-value’ or revenues on gender exposure by means of ‘aesthetic commodities’. Me too, I used to fall in love with all my murderers for strange reasons called ‘womanly manners’ and ‘societal morale’. ––– Janice Raymond: There are women who have always stood up for women. Women need to learn to recognise such women. Women also have to understand who their friends really are.
[76]I dont think so Tim - YouTube – note: Much earlier for instance, Marlene Dietrich and Josephine Baker; Frank Sinatra and Marylin Monroe; Elvis, Little Richard, James Brown, Stevie Wonder as much as Aretha Franklin, Diana Ross and Donna Summer; Tom Jones and Tina Turner; Jim Morrison and Janis Joplin; David Bowie and Iggy Pop as much as Suzie Quattro and Joan Jett; Steven Tyler and Deborah Harry; David Lee Roth and Amanda Lear epitomise unique legacies, all the young and aged Madonnas, Lopezes, Aguileras, Spearses, Cyruses, Gagas and Rihannas can't keep up with.
[78] M. Schuller, Success or Happiness? The kind of woman pursuing a ‘female career’ thus usually proves a more or less forcibly diminished personality. Such a constitutive deficiency's consequences are usually odd, featuring male clichés of a female power-obsessed politician(ess) or com(wo)mander in charge. For the chosen ones prove incapable of distinguishing liberation from oppression from coming to terms with exploiting their sexual feminine charms or at least rudiments of such. These She-Males may skilfully manoeuvre between the fragmentations and divisions of their womanhood's parts and accessories, they are commony exposed to, unwittingly or cunningly show-casing their female attractions, controlling the gaze of men to their own advantage. Such executive female behaviourism, epitomises nothing lesser than the female topos of the deceived betrayer.
[79]The Night Elvis was Shown from the Waist Up (todayifoundout.com): It all happened over half a century ago on January 6, 1957. One of the more famous, and by today’s viewpoint bizarre, acts of ‘censorship” in television history. Elvis Presley was deliberately filmed from the waist up only.
[81]Throat Clearing... Hey!... Michael N Sharon ... Antonio N Catherine ... Tom N Nicole ... George N Jennifer ... Brad N Angelina ... Jude N Cameron ... Kenau N Sandra ... Jack N Diane ... you should’ve worn some fresh diapers!
[93]The Beatles in Hamburg (Wikiped): McCartney explained that the Beatles had only experienced sex with girls from Liverpool, but when they got to Hamburg the only women who hung around the clubs late at night were strippers, dancers, or prostitutes. Harrison (who was then only 17) called Hamburg 'the naughtiest city in the world'. McCartney said: 'By the time you got to Hamburg, a girlfriend there was likely to be a stripper, so to be suddenly involved with a hard-core striptease artist, who obviously knew a thing or two about sex ... it was quite an eye-opener.' Gerry Marsden – frontman for Gerry & the Pacemakers – remembered visiting a Hamburg brothel in Herbertstrasse with Lennon: 'We paid our money, went in and sat down. This guy came out with the biggest lady we had ever seen in our lives. She looked like a bus with a bra on. We ran out that door so quick we didn't hear it shut. I wanted to go back to get my money back but John said: 'No, we'd better not. Might cause trouble.'
[104]Related case in point:Footloose (1984 film) (Wikiped): Footloose is loosely based on the town of Elmore City, Oklahoma. The town had banned dancing since its founding in 1898 in an attempt to decrease the amount of heavy drinking. One advocate of the dancing ban was the Reverend from the nearby town of Hennepin, F. R. Johnson.
[105] Note: Genderism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view (male/female), is a system of beliefs perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[106] Note: Ageism, or bias resulting from an age-related dichotomic view (young/old), is a system of beliefs perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[107] Note: Believerism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view (belief/disbelief), is a system of beliefs perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[108] Note: Colourism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view (white/black, bright/dark, clean/dirty), is a system of beliefs perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[109] Note: Determinationism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view (autonomy/heteronomy), is a system of beliefs perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[110] Note: Environmentalism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view (nature/artificiality), is a system of beliefs perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[111] Note: Factualism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view, is a system of beliefs (fact/feeling, vertiy/fiction) perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[112] Note: Globalisationism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view, is a system of beliefs (globe/location) perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[113] Note: Habitualism, or bias resulting from a dichotomic view, is a system of beliefs (custom/command) perpetuating negative evaluations of deviance.
[137] Søren Kierkegaard, On Society:Years might be spent gathering the public together. This abstraction, which the individuals so illogically form, quite rightly repulses the individual instead of coming to his help. But to adopt the same opinion as the public is a deceptive consolation because the public is only there in abstracta. A public is a kind of gigantic something, an abstract and deserted void which is everything an nothing.
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